Seek the Christ

"Christmas and some of the cherished traditions of the season remind us that we, like the Wise Men of old, should seek the Christ and lay before Him the most precious of gifts: a broken heart, and a contrite spirit. We should offer Him our love. We should give Him our willingness to take upon ourselves Him name and walk in the path of discipleship. We should promise to remember Him always, to emulate His example, and to go about doing good.

"We cannot offer Him the gift of perfection in all things because this is a gift beyond our capacity to give--at least for now. The Lord does not expect that we commit to move mountains. But He does require that we bring as gifts our best efforts to move ourselves, one foot in front of the other, walking in the ways He has prepared and taught."

Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "Of Curtains, Contentment, and Christmas," 2011 First Presidency Christmas Devotional, available at lds.org/broadcasts.

Not Home For Christmas

"On this Christmas I send my love to every missionary, every man or woman in the military, every student, and every employee and traveler who won't "be home for Christmas," as the carol says. Keep your faith. Look for the good in your situation. Do something kind for someone. Seek Christ devoid of wrapping and tinsel. You will find that despite external circumstances, Christmas-like the kingdom of God-is "within you" (Luke 17:21)."

Jeffrey R. Holland, "Christmas Within You," Ensign, Dec 2012, 12. or From "A Mission Christmas," Church News, Dec. 17, 2011, 10.

The Spirit of Christmas

"The spirit of Christmas is something I hope all of us would have in our hearts and lives-not only at this particular season but also throughout the year.

"When we have the spirit of Christmas, we remember Him whose birth we commemorate at this season of the year.

"...I wonder if we might profit by asking ourselves, What gifts would the Lord have me give to Him or to others at this precious season of the year?

"May I suggest that our Heavenly Father would want each of us to render to Him and to His Son the gift of obedience. I also feel that He would ask us to give of ourselves and not be selfish or greedy or quarrelsome."

President Thomas S. Monson, "Rediscovering the Christmas Spirit," Ensign, Dec 2012, 4.

Families Together Forever

“If we desire our families to be together forever, we begin the process today. Spending time talking with our children is an investment in our eternal family as we walk the path toward eternal life together.”

Rosemary M. Wixom, From a Salt Lake City stake conference satellite broadcast address given on October 24, 2010. 

Spend Time With Family

 “One of the main problems in families today is that we spend less and less time together. . . . Time together is precious time—time needed to talk, to listen, to encourage, and to show how to do things.”

James E. Faust, “Enriching Family Life,” Ensign, May 1983, 41. 

Parenting

“Parents should always be honest with their children, keeping promises made to them and ever speaking the truth. It is the consistent parent who gains the trust of his child. When a child feels that you honor his trust and reciprocate it, he will not violate it, not will he bring your name into dishonor. . . .

“Parents should never quarrel in the presence of their children. Sometimes quarrels arise out of an attempt to correct or discipline a child. One parent criticizes; the other objects. And the unified influence of the home, so far as the child is concerned, is nullified. Parents need to be united in knowing which way they want a child to go; otherwise, he may walk in wrong paths out of confusion. Richard L. Evens said: “Division between parents is unfair and confusing and wakens the foundations of the family. Those to whom a child should look for guidance they give.””

Elder Delbert L. Stapley, “Teaching Righteousness at Home,” Ensign, Oct. 2012. 64-65. 

Pray Vocally

“I hope that not too many of our prayers are silent, even though when we cannot pray vocally, it is good to offer a silent prayer in our hearts and in our minds.”

Spencer W. Kimball, “We Need a Listening Ear,” Ensign, Nov. 1979, 4. 

Patterns of Prayer

“I found several patterns as I studied the prayers offered in the Book of Mormon. And as I’ve reflected on my own experiences with prayer, I have realized that my most powerful prayers have followed these same patterns. For me, five Book of Mormon patterns of prayer have been especially impressive. Implementing these patterns can change the way we pray and consequently change our lives.”

-Go to a Private Place to Pray

-Kneel to Pray

-Pray Vocally

-Express Gratitude

-Pray for Others

John Hilton III, “Patterns of Prayer in the Book of Mormon,” Ensign, Oct. 2012, 60-63.

Chanting Prayers

“Once I watched a teacher instruct teenagers to chant the word “pots,” They shouted, “Pots, pots, pots, pots, pots.” Then the teacher asked, “What do you do at a green light?”

“Stop!” everyone shouted.

The teacher laughed and said, “That’s why there are so many accidents with teenage drivers.”

The teacher then pointed out that mindlessly chanting, “pots, pots, pots” (which is “stop” spelled backward) had primed the students to say “stop,” even though it was obviously the wrong answer. If the students had taken time to think, they would have said something different. He then asked, “Are you just chanting in your prayers, or do you really stop to think about what you are saying?”

The teacher who had his students chant “pots” later had them chant the word “roast.” After the students repeated it several times, the teacher asked, “What do you put in a toaster?”

Some student said, “toast,” but many paused to think and correctly said, “bread.” The teacher commended those who had stopped to think about what they were saying.”

John Hilton III, “Patterns of Prayer in the Book of Mormon,” Ensign, Oct. 2012, 60-63.

The Books of Mormon is for Us!

“The Book of Mormon . . . was written for our day. The Nephites never had the book; neither did the Lamanites of ancient times. It was meant for us. . . . Under the inspiration of God, who sees all things from the beginning, [Mormon] abridged centuries of records, choosing the stories, speeches, and events that would be most helpful to us. . . .

“We should constantly ask ourselves, ‘Why did the Lord inspire Mormon (or Moroni or Alma) to include that in his record? What lesson can I learn from that to help me live in this day and age?”

Ezra Taft Benson, “The Book of Mormon—Keystone of Our Religion,” Ensign, Nov. 1986, 6. 

Understanding the Atonement

"Understanding the Atonement may be the one most important truth that you can learn in your youth."

Boyd K. Packer, "How To Survive In Enemy Territory," From a seminary centennial broadcast address given on January 22, 2012.

Guilt

"Guilt is spiritual pain. Do not suffer from chronic pain. Get rid of it. Be done with it. Repent and, if necessary, repent again and again and again and again until you--not the enemy--are in charge of you.

Boyd K. Packer, "How To Survive In Enemy Territory," From a seminary centennial broadcast address given on January 22, 2012.

Same-sex Marriage

"People inquire about our position on those who consider themselves . . . gays and lesbians. My response is that we love them a sons and daughters of God. They may have certain inclinations which are powerful and which may be difficult to control. Most people have [temptations] of one kind or another at various times. If they do not act upon these inclinations, then they can go forward as do all other members of the Church. If they violate the law of chastity and the moral standards of the Church, then they are subject to the discipline of the Church, just as others are.

"We want to help. . . strengthen them, to assist them with their problems and to help them with their difficulties. But we cannot stand idle if they indulge in immoral activity, if they try to uphold and defend and live in a so called same-sex marriage situation. To permit such would be to make light of the very serious and sacred foundation of God-sanctioned marriage and its very purpose, the rearing of families."

Gordon B. Hinckley, "What Are People Asking About Us?" Ensign, Nov. 1998, 71.

How To Survive In Enemy Territory

"Discovering how the Holy Ghost operates in your life is the quest of a lifetime. Once you have made that discovery for yourself, you can live in enemy territory and will not be deceived or destroyed. No member of this Church--and that means each of you--will ever make a serious mistake without first being warned by the promptings of the Holy Ghost."

Boyd K. Packer, "How To Survive In Enemy Territory," From a seminary centennial broadcast address given on January 22, 2012.

Be Virtuous

“Do not let your passions destroy your dreams. Withstand temptation.

“Remember the words from the Book of Mormon: ‘Wickedness never was happiness.’”

Thomas S. Monson, “Be Thou an Example,” Ensign, May 2005, 113. 

The Standard and the Key

“The standard remains abstinence before marriage and total fidelity in marriage. However out of step we may seem, however much the standards are belittled, however much others yield, we will not yield, we cannot yield. . . .

“You had conferred upon you the gift of the Holy Ghost. There will be whisperings of approval or warning when you have decisions to make. The Holy Ghost can guide you away from evil and bring you back in you have wandered and lost your path. Never forget that you are sons and daughters of God. Satan cannot forever imprison you. You always hold the key of repentance to unlock the prison door.”

President Boyd K. Packer, President of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “The Standard of Truth Has Been Erected,” Ensign, Nov. 2003, 26. 

Teaching Chastity and Virtue

-Teaching and learning should begin early.

“Many children become exposed to sexual content on the Internet as young as 11 years old and some even younger. Entertainment venues, sporting events, advertising, and even social media are increasingly saturated with sexual images and innuendo.

“Some parents rightly ask, “When should I begin talking about sexually related issues?” It depends on the age and maturity of the child and the specific situation. Spiritual guidance will come as parents prayerfully and carefully observe their children’s behavior, intentionally listen to their children, and take time to consider and discern when and what to teach.”

-Teaching and learning should occur often

“Learning is a process rather than a single event. When it comes to teaching children about sexual intimacy or other related matters, people often refer to it as “the talk.” Whether intended or not, this term implies that parents teach this topic in a single conversation. That is not the most effective way for a child to learn.”

-Effective learning and teaching hinges on the relationship between the teacher and learner.

“When it comes to teaching children about sexually related topics, most parents worry almost exclusively about what they should say. While this is important, effective teaching and learning goes well beyond talking and telling about content. In fact, the way parent approach teaching their children may be more important than what they might actually say. Research supports the conclusion that parents who influence their children most when dealing with sexual issues are those who communicate openly, express love and concern, and are actively engaged in the lives of their children.”

-Teaching and learning are most effective when the subject is relevant and real.

“Depending on our approach, teaching about sexual intimacy can feel awkward, unrealistic, impractical, or even preachy. A key to success is to realize that most questions and concerns children have are reactions to real-life situation and observations. As we pay attention to, listen to, and observe our children, we will discern what we need to teach.”

-Learners learn best when they understand what teachers are teaching.

“Rather than speaking in code or even slang, we will have more success if we use correct and appropriate terms. This promotes understanding and cultivates respect.”

-Learners are converted when teachers connect the message with everlasting principles are standards.

“Rather than focusing only on the relevant “facts of life,” effective gospel instruction occurs when we connect those facts with the “facts of eternal life.”

Matthew O. Richardson, Second Counselor in the Sunday School General Presidency, “Teaching Chastity and Virtue,” Ensign, Oct 2012, 20-23.

Sacred, Revelatory, Profoundly Instructive Experiences

"My message today is that when you have no other choice, you can have sacred, revelatory, profoundly instructive experience with the Lords in any situation you are in," Elder Holland said, drawing on lessons learned from Joseph Smith's experience in Liberty Jail. "Indeed, let me say that even a little stronger: You can have sacred, revelatory, profoundly instructive experience with the Lord in the most miserable experiences of your life--in the worst settings, while enduring the most painful injustices, when facing the most insurmountable odds and opposition you have ever faced."

Jeffrey R. Holland. Find a link of video of the devotional by searching "military devotional" at news.lds.org. or see "Church Leaders Address Serviceman and Servicewomen in Military Devotional," Ensign, Oct 2012, 77, for summary.

Provident Living

 “All of us are responsible to provide for ourselves and our families in both temporal and spiritual ways. To provide providently, we must practice the principles of provident living: joyfully living within our means, being content with what we have, avoiding excessive debt, and diligently saving and preparing for rainy-day emergencies.”

Elder Robert D. Hales, “Becoming Provident Providers Temporally and Spiritually,” Ensign, May 2008, 8. 

Nurturing Our Faith

“Serving, studying, praying, and worshiping are four fundamentals in perfecting ‘that which is lacking in [our] faith.’ (1 Thes. 3:10). If we cease nurturing our faith in any of these four specific ways, we are vulnerable. . . .

“In a hardening world, the Lord can pierce our consciousness by using ‘the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.’ (Eph. 6:17); see also Jarom 1:12.) However, hearing must be ‘mixed with faith’ (Heb 4:2) and with Christian service, as we have heard again and again.”

Elder Neal A. Maxwell (1926-2004) of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “Lest Ye Be Wearied and Faint in Your Minds,” Ensign, May 1991, 88. 

Make Conference A Priority

“Decide now to make general conference a priority in your life. Decide to listen carefully and follow the teachings that are given.”

Elder Paul V. Johnson of the Seventy, “The Blessings of General Conference,” Ensign, Nov. 2005, 52. 

God's Love

 “We can feel God’s love for us every day. Shouldn’t we be able to give a little more of ourselves to our fellowmen as taught in the beloved hymn “Because I Have Been Given Much?” The Lord has opened the door for us to be forgiven. Wouldn’t it be only right to put aside our own egotism and pride and begin to open that blessed door of forgiveness to those with whom we struggle—especially to all of our own family?

“In the end, happiness does not spring from perfection but from applying divine principles, even in small steps.”

Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “One Key To A Happy Family,” Ensign, Oct 2012, 6. 

The Prince's Dog

“There is an old Welsh story from the 13th century about a prince who returned home to find his dog with blood dripping down its face. The man rushed inside and, to his horror, saw that his baby boy was missing and his cradle overturned. In anger the prince pulled out his sword and killed his dog. Shortly thereafter, he heard the cry of his son—the babe was alive! By the infant’s side lay a dead wolf. The dog had, in reality, defended the prince’s baby from a murderous wolf.

“Though this story is dramatic, it demonstrates a point. It opens the possibility that they story we tell ourselves about why others behave a certain way does not always agree with the facts—sometimes we don’t even want to know the facts. We would rather feel self-justified in our anger by holding onto our bitterness and resentment. Sometimes these grudges can last months or years. Sometimes they can last a lifetime.”

Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “One Key To A Happy Family,” Ensign, Oct 2012, 5. 

Condemning Others' Actions

 “There are many degrees of offense. There are many degrees of hurt. But what I have noticed is that often we justify our anger and satisfy our consciences by telling ourselves stories about the motives of others that condemn their actions as unforgivable and egoistic while, at the same time, lifting our own motives as pure and innocent.”

Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “One Key to A Happy Family,” Ensign, Oct 2012, 5. 

Happy Families

 “The great Russian author Leo Tolstoy began his novel Anna Karenina with these words: “ Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.” While I do not have Tolstoy’s certainty that happy families are all alike, I have discovered one thing that most have in common: they have a way of forgiving and forgetting the imperfections of others and of looking for the good.”

Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “One Key To A Happy Family,” Ensign, Oct 2012, 5. 

The Solutions Are Found In Christ

 "The solutions to life’s problems are always gospel solutions. Not only are answers found in Christ, but so is the power, the gift, the bestowal, the miracle of giving and receiving those answers.”

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, “How Do I Love Thee?” in Brigham Young University 1999-2000 Speeches (2000), Feb 15, 2000. 

Staying On the Path

“Decisions are constantly before us. To make them wisely, courage is needed—the courage to say no, the courage to say yes. Decisions do determine destiny.

“I plead with you to make a determination right here, right now, not to deviate from the path which will lead to our goal: eternal life without Father in Heaven.”

President Thomas S. Monson, “The Three Rs of Choice,” Ensign, Nov. 2010, 68.

5 Practices That Can Change Our Lives

 “For both new and old members of the Church, here are five practices that can change our lives. These are commandments of God and will help us remain faithful, even in the face of trials and temptations. If we follow them, these practices will allow the Holy Spirit to continue to strive with us and strengthen us as our testimonies grow:

1.       Hold personal and family scripture study.

2.       Hold personal and family prayer.

3.       Hold family home evening.

4.       Pay an honest tithe.

5.       Serve others by fulfilling Church callings.

“If we establish the traditions of a righteous people, we will overcome our weaknesses, progress in our faith, and not fall away.”

Elder James B. Martino, “Repentance That Brings Conversion,” Ensign, Sept 2012, 61.

Repentance That Brings Conversion

 "The process of repentance, therefore, is more than just asking forgiveness for what we have done wrong. Repentance requires further action on our part. When investigators commit to be baptized, they have felt the Spirit and want to repent. Sometimes, however, they fail to maintain their righteousness because they do not “lay down the weapons of their rebellion” (Alma 23:7), whatever they may be.

“When the Lamanite converts recognized that their traditions were wrong, they realized they had to change. They decided to take their weapons of rebellion and “bury them up deep in the earth” (Alma 24:17).

“In other words, they took away their temptation and placed it where it could not get to them. What about us? Do we likewise remove “the temptations and the sins which do so easily beset [us]” (2 Nephi 4:18)? Do we stay away from people and places that might tempt us to break the Word of Wisdom? Have we installed an Internet filter on our computer and moved it to a public area of our home? Have we figuratively buried habits that keep us from the companionship of the Holy Spirit?

“The Lamanites also began to establish righteous patterns in their lives. This was the key to their success—they filled the vacuum in their lives by implementing new traditions that drew them closer to God.”

Elder James B. Martino, “Repentance That Brings Conversion,” Ensign, Sept 2012, 59-60.

How Do We Learn to Forgive Others?

President George Albert Smith helps answer this question in chapter 23 of Teachings of Presidents of the Church: George Albert Smith (2011):

• -          “Before we get into the glory of our Father and enjoy the blessings that we hope to receive through faithfulness, we will have to live the laws of patience, and exercise forgiveness toward those who trespass against us, and remove from our hearts all feelings of hatred toward them.”
• -          “When we partake of the sacrament of the Lord’s Supper, . . . let us purge from our hearts all felling of unkindness toward one another and toward our brothers and sisters who are not of our faith.”
• -          “May we have the Spirit of the Master dwelling within us, that we may forgive all men as He has commanded, forgive, not only with our lips but in the very depts. Of our hearts, every trespass that may have been committed against us.”

An Inward Healing

“Most of us have not reached [a Christlike] stage of compassion and love and forgiveness. It is not easy. It requires a self-discipline almost greater than we are capable of. But as we try, we come to know that there is a resource of healing, that there is a mighty power of healing in Christ, and that if we are to be His true servants we must not only exercise that healing power in behalf of others, but, perhaps more important, inwardly.”

President Gordon B. Hinckley, “The Healing Power of Christ,” Ensign, Nov. 1988, 59. 

Covenants

Faith in Christ is an essential prerequisite to entering into divine covenants, but covenants also add to one’s faith in a way that cannot otherwise be attained. By covenant, the great God of heaven permits Himself to be bound to each of us individually (see D&C 82:10). So long as we abide by our covenants with Him, He is obligated to grant us a place in His kingdom and , with the higher covenants, exaltation within the kingdom. He is a God who has all power and who cannot lie. Thus, we can have unbounded faith that He will fulfill His pledges to us. By our covenant with God, we can enjoy a faith in Christ strong enough to see us through any challenge or trial, knowing that in the end our salvation is assured. 

Elder D. Todd Christofferson, “Building Faith in Christ,” Ensign, Sept 2012, 55. 

When the Lord Balances His Books

“There were two farmers once who had adjoining fields. The one never worked in his field on Sunday, and his neighbor used to chide him about it. He said, ‘Your crops aren’t doing as well as mine are. Why don’t you work on Sunday?’

“The other farmer said, ‘Well, I want to do what the Lord said. I want to gain the blessings of the Lord.’

“Then one October day they stood at a fence line. The [neighbor] said, ‘Just look at it, Look at my field. It is beautiful, the grain is tall, the heads are full of wheat, and your field shows little signs of neglect. You haven’t tended yours as well as I’ve tended mine. Look at my harvest compared to yours. What do you say now about the blessings you thought you were earning?’

“The [Sabbath-keeping] farmer thought for a few minutes and said, ‘The Lord doesn’t balance his books in October.’ “

President Boyd K. Packer, Mine Errand from the Lord (2008) 193.

Perilous Times

“Even though times become perilous . . . if we only trust in God and keep his commandments we need have no fear.”

Ezra Taft Benson, in Conference Report, Oct. 1950, 146. 

Trials and Tribulations

“While [God] does not always intervene in the course of events, He has promised the faithful peace even in their trials and tribulations.”

Joseph B. Wirthlin, “Finding a Safe Harbor,” Ensign, May 2000, 59. 

Obedience

“Obedience allows God’s blessings to flow without constraint. He will bless His obedient children with freedom from bondage and misery.”

Russell M. Nelson, “Face the Future with Faith,” Ensign, May 2011, 34-35. 

God Will Protect Us

“God will be with us. He will watch over us. He will protect us . . . if we will be true and faithful and obedient and hearken to His word.”

Gordon B. Hinckley, “God Will Protect Us in There Perilous Times,” Church News, Feb 22, 2003, 3. 

Voting

The First Presidency reminds us that “as citizens we have the privilege and duty of electing office holders and influencing public policy. . . . We urge you to register to vote, to study the issues and candidates carefully and prayerfully, and then to vote.

First Presidency letter, September 11, 2008; see also “Members Encouraged to Register, Study, Vote,” Church News, Sept. 27, 2008, 7.  

War

“Of the 239 chapters in the Book of Mormon, 174 (73%) deal with war, terrorism, murder, political conspiracies, secret combinations, threats, family collisions, and other hostilities.

“Why did the Book of Mormon record keepers preserve so many incidents of war? President Ezra Taft Benson answered, “From the Book of Mormon we learn how Disciples of Christ live in times of war.”

David Brent Marsh, “How Disciples of Christ Live in Times of War and Violence,” Ensign, Sept 2012, 44. 

Defending Religious Freedom

 “My challenge is that we join with people of all faiths who feel accountable to God in defending religious freedom so it can be a beacon for morality. We caution you to be civil and responsible as you defend religious liberty and moral values. We ask that you do this on the Internet and in your personal interactions in the neighborhoods and communities where you live. Be an active participant, not a silent observer.”

Quentin L. Cook, “Restoring Morality and Religious Freedom,” Ensign, Sept. 2012, 38. 

Disagreement

 “There are some who feel that venting their personal anger of deeply held opinions is more important than conducting themselves as Jesus Christ lived and taught. . . . How we disagree is a real measure of who we are and whether we truly follow the Savior. It is appropriate to disagree, but it is not appropriate to disagreeable. . . . If we show love and respect even in adverse circumstances, we become more like Christ.”

Quentin L. Cook, “We Follow Jesus Christ,” Ensign, May 2010, 84-85.

Pray for Areas to Open

 “I would ask that your faith and prayers continue to be offered in behalf of those areas where our influence is limited and where we are not allowed to share the gospel freely at this time. Miracles can occur as we do so.”

Thomas S. Monson, “Welcome to Conference,” Ensign, Nov. 2009, 6. 

Missionary Service is a Priesthood Duty

 “I repeat what prophets have long taught—that every worthy, able young man should prepare to serve a mission. Missionary service is a priesthood duty—an obligation the Lord expects of us who have been given so very much. Young men, I admonish you to prepare for service as a missionary. Keep yourselves clean and pure and worthy to represent the Lord. Maintain you health and strength. Study the scriptures. Where such is available, participate in seminary or institute. Familiarize yourself with the missionary handbook. Preach My Gospel.

“A word to you young sisters: while you do not have the same priesthood responsibility as do the young men to serve as full-time missionaries, you also make a valuable contribution as missionaries, and we welcome your service.”

Thomas S. Monson, “As We Meet Together Again,” Ensign, Nov. 2010, 5-6.

The Lifeblood of the Kingdom

“Missionary work is the lifeblood of the kingdom. May I suggest that if you are able, you might consider making a contribution of the General Missionary Fund of the Church.”

Thomas S. Monson, “It’s Conference Once Again,” Ensign, May 2011, 6. 

Serve Faithfully, and You'll Be Better

“The time you spend in the mission field, if those years are spent in dedicated service, will yield a greater return on investment than any other two years of your lives. . . . If you serve a mission faithfully and well, you will be a better husband, you will be a better father, you will be a better student, a better worker.”

Gordon B. Hinckley, “Of Missions, Temples, and Stewardship,” Ensign, Nov, 1995, 52. 

No Better Way of Expressing Thanks

“There is probably no better way of expressing thanks to the Almighty than serving a full-time mission.”

Elder Leonard Chisango, Zimbabwe, “Responding to the Prophet’s Call,” Ensign, Sept. 2012, 27. 

Not Qualified?

“Many humble Latter-day Saints fear that they are not qualified for missionary labors. But to such a prospective missionary, the Lord has given this assurance: ‘Faith, hope, charity and love, with an eye single to the glory of God, qualify him for the work.”

Elder Russell M. Nelson, “Senior Missionaries and the Gospel,” Ensign, Nov. 2004, 81. 

Missionary Service

 “I am constantly amazed at how the Holy Ghost matches the characteristics and needs of each missionary and couple to the widely varying circumstances of missionary service throughout the world.”

Elder Richard G. Scott, “Now Is the Time to Serve a Mission!” Ensign, May 2006, 89. 

In This Family We Serve Missions!

 “What greater gift could grandparents give their posterity than to say be deed as well as word, ‘In this family we serve missions!”

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, “We Are All Enlisted,” Ensign, Nov. 2011, 46. 

Facing Fear

“Fear of the unknown of fear that we don’t have the scriptural skills or language required can cause reluctance to serve. But the Lord has said, ‘If ye are prepared ye shall not fear’ (D&C 38:30). Your life is your preparation. . . . Just go and be yourselves.”

Elder Robert D. Hales of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, Ensign, May 2001, 25. 

Senior Missionaries

 “We need many, many more senior couples. . . . Make yourselves available to leave home and give full-time missionary service. There are few times in your lives when you will enjoy the sweet spirit and satisfaction that come from giving full-time service together in the work of the Master.”

President Thomas S. Monson, “As We Meet Together Again,” Ensign, Nov. 2010, 6. 

Some Would Rather Pull a Hand Cart...

 “Some would rather pull a hand cart across the prairie than bring up the subject of faith and religion to their friends. . . . They worry about how they might be perceived or how it might harm their relationship.” President Uchtdorf continues, “It doesn't need to be that way because we have a glad message to share, and we have a message of joy.”

Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “Waiting on the Road to Damascus,” Ensign, May 2011, 76. 

Be Genuine

Describing our interactions with others, Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles counsels: “More important than speaking is listening. These people are not lifeless objects disguised as a baptismal statistic. They are children of God, our brothers and sisters, and they need what we have. Be genuine. Reach out sincerely. Ask these friends what matters most to them. . . . And then listen. . . . I promise you that something in what they say will always highlight a truth of the gospel about which you can bear testimony and about which you can then offer more.”

Jeffrey R. Holland, “Witnesses unto Me,” Ensign, May 2001, 15. 

Part of Who We Are

 “Successful missionary opportunities are more likely to be found when members are just good, true friends with others. As Elder M. Russell Ballard of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles said, “If we are open about our member ship in the Church from the very beginning, . . . friends and acquaintances will accept that this is part of who we are.”

M. Russell Ballard, “Creating a Gospel Sharing Home,” Ensign, May 2006, 86. 

Say a Little More

“Years ago our family lived and worked among people who in almost every case were not of our faith. When they asked us how our weekend was, we tried . . . to share some religious experiences we had as a family over the weekend—for instance, what a youth speaker had said about the standards from For the Strength of Youth or how we were touched by the words of a young man who was leaving on his mission.”

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, Second Counselor in the First Presidency, “Waiting on the Road to Damascus,” Ensign, May 2011, 76. 

Good Works

 “Your good works will be evident to others. The light of the Lord can beam from your eyes. With that radiance, you had better prepare for questions.”

Russell M. Nelson, “Be Thou an Example of the Believers,” Ensign, Nov. 2010, 48. 

Nurture Tender Souls

 “My desire is to plead with our sisters to stop worrying about a phone call or a quarterly or monthly visit,” said Ellen Smoot, the 13th Relief Society general president. She asked us to “concentrate instead on nurturing tender souls.”

Mary Ellen Smoot, in Daughters in My Kingdom: The History and Work of Relief Society (2011), 117. 

Each of Us Can Do Something

 “The needs of others are ever present, and each of us can do something to help someone. . . .Unless we lose ourselves in service to others there is little purpose to our own lives.”

Thomas S. Monson, “What Have I Done for Someone Today?” Ensign, Nov. 2009, 85.

Share Fearlessly

“God is preparing to receive your testimony of restored truth. He requires your faith and then your action to share fearlessly what has become so precious to you and to those you love.

“Prepare to share by filling your mild every day with the truths of the gospel. As you keep the commandments and honor your covenants, you will feel the testimony of the Spirit and more of the Savior’s love for you and for those you meet.”

President Henry B. Eyring, “Sharing the Gospel Heart To Heart,” Ensign Sept 2012, 4. 

Pray to Meet Someone To Share the Gospel With

“I have a friend who prays every day to meet someone who is prepared to receive the gospel. He carries with him a copy of the Book of Mormon. The night before a short trip, he decided not to take a copy with him but instead a spiritual impression came to him: “Take a Book of Mormon with you.” He put on in his bag.

“When a woman he knew sat next to him on the trip, he wondered, “Is this the one?” She rode with him again on the return trip. He thought, “How should I bring up the gospel?”

“Instead, she said to him, “You pay tithing to your church, don’t you? He said he did. She said she was supposed to pay tithing to her church but didn’t. Then she asked, “What can you tell me about the Book of Mormon?”

“He explained that the book is scripture, another witness of Jesus Christ, translated by the Prophet Joseph Smith. She seemed interested, so he reached into his bag and said, “I was impressed to bring this book with me. I think it is for you.”

“She began to read it. As they parted, she said, “You and I are going to have more conversations about this.”

“What my friend could not know—but what God did know—was that she was looking for a church. God knew she had watched my friend and wondered why his church made him so happy. God knew she would ask about the Book of Mormon and that she would be willing to be taught by the missionaries. She was prepared. So was my friend. You and I can also be prepared.”

President Henry B. Eyring, “Sharing the Gospel Heart To Heart,” Ensign Sept 2012, 4. 

Prepared for Missionary Work

“God will put prepared people in the way of His prepared servants who want to share the gospel. You have had that happen in your own life. How often it happens depends on the preparation of your mind and your heart.”

President Henry B. Eyring, “Sharing the Gospel Heart To Heart,” Ensign Sept 2012, 4. 

Change the World

 “Remember who you are.” “Work hard.” “Train for adversity.” “Dream big.” “Winners do not always finish first.” “Run into your marathon of faith and life. Don’t get discouraged by the hills, but see that opportunity in adversity. Go with a sure foot and a sure knowledge that you are never alone. . . . I truly believe that one virtuous young man or young woman led by the Spirit can change the world.”

Elaine S. Dalton, Young Women general president, BYU-Hawaii graduation commencement address, April 14, 2012.

Give Service

Elder D. Todd Christofferson stressed the need for students to give service throughout their lives. “Service will be your antidote against selfishness and the sense of entitlement that more and more afflict societies around the world. . . . Your service will bless others, but it will also protect you,” he said.

Graduation Commencement address at LDS Business College in Salt Lake City on April 13, 2012. 

Martin's Faithfulness

“What do we learn from this example? (1) Witnesses are important, and the testimony of the Three Witnesses to the Book of Mormon is impressive and reliable. (2) Happiness and spiritual progress lie in following the leaders of the Church. (3) There is hope for each of us, even if we have sinned and strayed from a favored position.

“The Lord’s invitation is warm and loving. ‘Come back and feast at the table of the Lord, and taste again the sweet and satisfying fruits of fellowship with the saints.’”

Elder Dallin H. Oaks of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “The Witness: Martin Harris,” Ensign, May 1999, 37. 

How Do We Coupe With Grief?

Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin (1917-2008) of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles addressed this question in his October 2006 general conference address:

“I think that of all the days since the beginning of this world’s history, that Friday [when the Savior was crucified] was the darkest.

“But the doom of that day did not endure.

“The despair did not linger because on Sunday, the resurrected Lord burst the bonds of death. He ascended from the grave and appeared gloriously triumphant as the Savior of all mankind.

“And in an instant the eyes that had been filled with ever-flowing tears dried. The lips that had whispered prayers of distress and grief now filed the air with wondrous praise, for Jesus the Christ, the Son of the living God, stood before them as the firstfruits of the Resurrection, the proof that death is merely the beginning of a new and wondrous existence. . . .

“Because of the life and eternal sacrifice of the Savior of the world, we will be reunited with those we have cherished.”

“Sunday Will Come,” Ensign, Nov. 2006, 30. 

But If Not

“The faithful will not be totally immune from the events on this planet. Thus the courageous attitudes of imperiled Shadrach, Meshach, and Abed-nego are worthy of emulation. They knew that God could rescue them. ‘But it not,’ they vowed, they would still serve God anyway (see Daniel 3:16-18).”

Elder Neal A Maxwell (1926-2004) of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “Encircled in the Arms of His Love,” Ensign, Nov. 2002, 17. 

Invite the Class to Live a Principle

“So if as teachers we want the Spirit to be more evident in our classroom, we simply need to invite class members to live a principle of the gospel more fully. When we commit to live a gospel principle more fully, we draw nearer to God and God draws nearer to us (see D&C 88:63).”

Russell T. Osguthorpe, “The Lesson Is Inside The Learner,” Ensign, Jul 2012, 32-33. 

Learn Through the Spirit

“Great gospel teachers recognize that they are not actually the teachers at all. The gospel is taught and learned through the Spirit. Without the Spirit, the teaching of gospel truths cannot lead to learning (see D&C 42:14). The more the teacher gives inspired invitations to act, the more the Spirit will be present during the lesson.”

Russell T. Osguthorpe, “The Lesson Is Inside The Learner,” Ensign, Jul 2012, 32. 

Teach Doctrine

 “Doctrine is the key to effective gospel learning and teaching. It unlocks hearts. It unlocks minds. It opens the way for the Spirit of God to inspire and edify everyone present.”

Russell T. Osguthorpe, “The Lesson Is Inside The Learner,” Ensign, Jul 2012, 32. 

Teach With Clarity and Conviction

“When the doctrines of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ are taught with clarity and conviction, the Lord strengthens both learner and teacher.

Russell T. Osguthorpe, “The Lesson Is Inside the Learner,” Ensign, Jul 2012, 32. 

Teach With Love

“When love is our motive, the Lord will strengthen us to accomplish His purposes to help His children. He will inspire us with what we as teachers need to say and how we should say it.”

Russell T. Osguthorpe, “The Lesson Is Inside The Learner,” Ensign, Jul 2012, 32. 

The Best is Yet to Come

“We look back to claim the embers from glowing experiences but not the ashes. And when we have learned what we need to learn and have brought with us the best that we have experienced, then we look ahead and remember that faith is always pointed toward the future.”

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “The Best is Yet to Be,” Ensign, Jan. 2010, 24. 

Someone Always Cares

 “At times some may think that no one cares—but someone always cares! Your Heavenly Father will not leave you to struggle along, but stands ever ready to help.”

Thomas S. Monson

What We Become, Not What We Have Done

“The Final Judgment is not just an evaluation of a sum total of good and evil acts—what we have done,” taught Elder Dallin H. Oaks of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “It is an acknowledgment of the final effect of our acts and thoughts—what we have become. It is not enough for anyone just to go through the motions. The commandments, ordinances, and covenants of the gospel are not a list of deposits required to be made in some heavenly account. The gospel of Jesus Christ is a plan that shows us how to become what our Heavenly Father desires us to become.”

Dallin H. Oaks, “The Challenge to Become,” Ensign, Nov. 2000, 32. 

The Sealing

“When an individual enters into the covenant of marriage in the temple, he or she makes covenants with both God and with his or her spouse. Spouses promise faithfulness to each other and to God.”

Ensign, July 2012, 24. 

Learning about the Endowment

You can learn more about the principles behind the covenants we make in the endowment by studying the following:

-“Obedience,” Gospel Principles (2009), 200-206.

-M. Russell Ballard, “The Law of Sacrifice,” Ensign, Oct. 1998, 6.

-On “the law of [the] gospel” (D&C 104:18), see Doctrine and Covenants 42.

-“The Law of Chastity,” Gospel Principles (2009), 224-32.

-D. Todd Christofferson, “Reflections on a Consecrated Life,” Ensign, Nov. 2010, 16.

Ensign, July 2012, 24. 

Temples

You or someone you have contact with may wonder, “Why aren’t temples open to the public?” Latter-day Saint temples are not used for our weekly Sunday worship, where all are welcome to attend. Sacred ordinances are performed in temples. So temples are open only to baptized members who qualify themselves to receive those ordinances.

After a new temple is built, the public may tour it during an open house. After the temple is dedicated to the Lord, the public may visit the grounds, but the temple is open only to those with a valid temple recommend.

Ensign, July 2012, 24. 

Stand Tall

 “There has never been more expected of the faithful in such a short period of time as there is of us . . . Each day we personally make many decisions that show where our support will go. The final outcome is certain –the forces of righteousness will finally win. What remains to be seen is where each of us personally, now and in the future, will stand in this fight-and how tall we will stand.”

Ezra Taft Benson, "In His Steps," Ensign, Sept 1988.

Face the Future With Hope

 “We should all face the future with hope because we know that the forces of evil will be overcome. We should all maintain a positive outlook as we face challenges because today we have the scriptures, the teachings of living prophets, priesthood authority, temples, and the support of each other as members of the Church. We should all “come off conqueror” because of prayer (D&C 10:5). And most important, we should have hope in eternal life because of the Lord’s perfect atoning sacrifice (see Moroni 7:41).

“When our priorities are right, we will live a richer and more abundant life. Putting the Lord, His kingdom, and our families first will give us the hope we need to face present and future challenges.”

Elder Jose A. Teixeira, “Facing the Future With Hope,” Ensign, July 2012, 17. 

Conquer Fear and Despair

“One of today’s great challenges is learning to conquer fear and despair in order to overcome trials and temptations. It takes only a few moments for us to open a newspaper, scroll the web, or hear a news broadcast on radio or television to be confronted with distressing accounts of crime and natural calamities that happen every day.

“Understanding the promises in scripture concerning how the Lord will conquer evil and how truth will conquer error can help us face the future with hope and optimism. In today’s world we see war, natural calamities, and economic crises. At times these events are not just things we observe from a distance but are things that affect us personally.

“There is no need for us to mourn lost worldly possessions or to fixate on the temporal, for those things can rob us of the joy of the simple, sublime things of life.”

Elder Jose A. Teixeira, “Facing the Future With Hope,” Ensign, July 2012, 16-17. 

Live For It, Pray For It

“Throughout your life on earth, seek diligently to fulfill the fundamental purposes of this life through the ideal family.  While you may not have yet reached that ideal, do all you can through obedience and faith in the Lord to consistently draw as close to it as you are able. Let nothing dissuade you from that objective. . . . If for the present, that does not include sealing in the temple to a righteous companion, live for it. Pray for it. Exercise faith that you will obtain it. Never do anything that would make you unworthy of it. If you have lost the vision of eternal marriage, rekindle it. If your dream requires patience, give it. As brothers, we prayed and worked for 30 years before our mother and our nonmember father were sealed in the temple. Don’t become overanxious. Do the best you can. We cannot say whether that blessing will be obtained on this side of the veil or beyond it, but the Lord will keep His promises.

Elder Richard G. Scott, “First Things First,” Ensign, May 2001, 7.

Don't Be Discouraged

 “We know that family scripture study and family home evenings are not always perfect. Regardless of the challenges you face, do not become discouraged.”

Quentin L. Cook, “In Tune with the Music of Faith.” Ensign, May 2012, 44. 

The Right Order

 “We need to do thing in the right order! Marriage first and then family. Too many in the world have forgotten this natural order of things and think they can change it or even reverse it.”

M. Russell Ballard, “That the Lost May Be Found,” Ensign, May 2012, 100. 

Husbands And Wives

“Husbands and wives should understand that their first calling—from which they will never be released—is to one another and then to their children.”

Boyd K. Packer, “And a Little Child Shall Lead Them,” Ensign, May 2012, 8. 

Being Always in the Middle

“Being always in the middle means that the game is never over, hope is never lost, defeat is never final. For no matter where we are or what our circumstances, an eternity of beginnings and an eternity of endings stretch out before us.

“We are always in the middle.”

President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “Always in the Middle,” Ensign, Jul 2012, 5. 

Women, Why Weepest Thou?

In October 1996 President James E. Faust gave a talk entitled, “Woman, why weepest thou?” In his talk President Faust states, “Many of us have heartrending challenges, those who suffer, those who feel alone, those who mourn and have heartaches, those with physical , mental, emotional pain, those crippled or who have become crippled, those who have the privileged responsibilities of helping others who have mental and physical disabilities, and those who may have serious transgressions. The Savior discovered the sorrowing Mary Magdalene, who ‘stood without at the sepulcher weeping’. As she turned around she saw Jesus standing and knew not that it was Jesus. Jesus saith unto her, ‘Woman, why weepest thou?’ The Savior was speaking not just to the sorrowing Mary, he was also speaking to us, for the tears or sorrow, pain, or remorse are the common lot of mankind.”

President Faust went on to say “to remain true and faithful through this mortal vale of tears, we must love God with all our heart, might, mind and strength, and love our neighbors as ourselves. We must also stand together; we must gather strength from each other. We must also ‘succor the weak, lift up the hands which hang down and strengthen the feeble knees’.

“As we go through travail and difficulty, we may feel sorry for ourselves and despair, but with the love of God and Saints, unitedly bearing each other’s burdens, we can be happy and overcome evil.”

Pioneers

“There is something about reviewing the lessons of the past to prepare us to face the challenges of the future. What a glorious legacy of faith, courage, and ingenuity those noble early Mormon pioneers have left for us to build upon. . . Embracing the gospel resulted in a complete change of life for them.”

L. Tom Perry, "The Past Way of Facing the Future," October 2009 General Conference

The Royal Generation

“I am certain that the Lord is pleased with the youth of the Church today. You have been saved to come forth to the earth at this important time. He is counting on you to build his kingdom here. He has educated you, trained you, and equipped you better than any other generation. Now surely, he expects you to perform. . . .

“May the Lord continue to strengthen and to bless you with faith and the desire to serve him as he would command you.  Do it with all the enthusiasm your souls can muster, and I promise you great joy which comes only as a result of service in our Father in heaven’s kingdom.”

L. Tom Perry, in Conference Report, Buenos Aires Area Conference 1975, p. 39. 

A Soft Answer Turneth Away Wrath

“It is in the home that our behavior is most significant. It is the place where our actions have the greatest impact, for good or ill. Sometimes we are so much ‘at home’ that we no longer guard our words. We forget simple civility. If we are not on guard, we can fall into the habit of criticizing one another, losing our tempers, or behaving selfishly. Because they love us, our spouses and children may be quick to forgive, but they often carry away in silence unseen injuries and unspoken heartache. . . .

“When we feel anger or contention in our homes, we should immediately recognize what power has taken control of our lives and what Satan is endeavoring to accomplish. Solomon provided us this wise formula: ‘A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger’ (Prov. 15:1).

“Our home should ideally be a refuge where each member feels safe, secure, loved, and insulated from harsh criticism and contention that we so often encounter in the world.”

Wayne S. Peterson, “Our Actions Determine Our Character,” Ensign, Nov. 2001, 84.

No Hands But Ours

"Shortly after the culmination of World War II, a devastated city in England began its heartbreaking and wearying work, of restoration. In the old city square had stood a large statue of Jesus Christ with His hands outspread in an attitude of invitation. On the pedestal were carved the words “Come Unto Me.”

In the process of the restoration of the statue with the aid of master artists and sculptors, the figure was eventually reassembled except for the hands of which no fragments could be discovered anywhere in the surrounding rubble. Someone made the suggestion that the artist would have to fashion new hands since the former hands could not be found.

Later come a public protest, couched in the words, “NO, leave Him without hands!” So today in the square of that English city the restored stature of Christ stands without hands and on the base of it are carved the words, “Christ has no hands but ours.”

My Sister's Hands

My sister’s hands are fair and white. My sister’s hands are dark.

My sister’s hands are touched with age, or by the years unmarked

And often when I pray for strength to live as He commands,

The Father sends me sustenance in my sister’s hands.

My sister’s hands are lines and worn with burdens of their own,

And yet I know that should I mourn, I need not weep alone.

And often as I seek His grace to lighten life’s demands,

The Father sends me solace borne in my sister’s hands.

My sister’s hands, compassion’s tools that teach my own their art

Witnesses of charity within the human heart,

Bearers of the Savior’s love and mercy unto man,

I have felt the Master’s touch, in my sister’s hands.

-Sally DeFord

Honesty Guide

Elder Marvin J. Ashton has given us a guide by which we can determine whether something is honest. Simply ask yourself: “‘Is it right? Is it true?’ not ‘Is it expedient satisfactory, convenient, or profitable?’ ” Then follow your honest answer.

In Conference Report, Apr. 1982, p. 13; or Ensign, May 1982, p. 11

Honesty: True Joy

“We often speak of that scriptural reference, ‘Man is that he might have joy’. There is a joy that comes to one from being honest. Let me tell you how. By this means you can have the companionship of the Master and you can have the Spirit of the Holy Ghost. Violations of the code of honesty will deprive you of these two great blessings….if we would have the companionship of the Master and the Spirit of the Holy Ghost, we must be honest with ourselves, honest with God, and with our fellowmen. This results in true joy."

Howard W. Hunter

Seek Wisdom Instead of Power

“Let [us] seek for wisdom instead of power,” said Sister Snow, “and [we] will have all the power [we] have wisdom to exercise.”

Eliza R. Snow, in Daughters in My Kingdom, 45-46.

Before You Visit Homes

Eliza R. Snow counseled visiting teachers, “to be filled with the Spirit of God, of wisdom, of humility, of love” before they visited homes so they would be able to ascertain and meet spiritual needs as well as temporal ones. She said, “You may feel to talk words of peace and comfort, and if you find a sister feeling cold, take her to your heart as you would a child to your bosom and warm [her] up.”

Eliza R. Snow, in Daughters in My Kingdom: The History and Work of Relief Society (2011), 108.

Focus On People

“Visiting teaching becomes the Lord’s work when our focus is on people rather than percentages. In reality, visiting teaching is never finished. It is more a way of life than a task.”

Julie B. Beck, Ensign, Nov. 2009, 114. 

When You Are Sustained and Set Apart

“The Lord will make you an instrument in His hands if you are humble, faithful, and diligent. . . . You will receive added strength when you are sustained by the congregation and set apart.”

Teaching, No Greater Call [1999], 20). 

Someone We Have Sustained

“We can determine to pray daily for someone called by God to serve us. We can thank someone who has blessed us by his or her service. We can decide to step forward when someone we have sustained asks for volunteers.”

See Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph F. Smith (1998), 211-12.

Our Sustaining Vote

“By our sustaining vote, we make solemn promise. We promise to pray for the Lord’s servants and that He will lead and strengthen them (see D&C 93:51). We pledge that we will look for and expect to feel inspiration from God in their counsel and whenever they act in their calling (see D&C 1:38).

“That promise will need to be renewed in our hearts frequently. Your Sunday School teacher will try to teach by the Spirit, but just as you might do, your teacher may make mistakes in front of the class. You, however, can decide to listen and watch for the moments when you can feel inspiration come. In time you will notice fewer mistakes and more frequent evidence that God is sustaining that teacher.

“As we raise a hand to sustain a person, we commit to work for whatever purpose of the Lord that person is called to accomplish.”

President Henry B. Eyring, “Called of God and Sustained by the People,” Ensign, June 2012, 4. 

Our Pioneer Ancestors

“We each can learn much from our early pioneer ancestors, whose struggles and heartaches were met with resolute courage and an abiding faith in a living God. … Youth and children were among the thousands who pulled and pushed handcarts. . . I think that there is not a member of this Church today who has not been touched by the accounts of the early pioneers. Those who did so much for the good of all surely had as their objective to inspire faith. They met the goal in a magnificent manner.”

President Thomas S. Monson, “Our Honored Pioneer Heritage,” New Era, July 2011. 

Keep an Eternal Perspective

“I would admonish you to maintain an eternal perspective. Make certain that the marriage in your future is a temple marriage. There is no scene so sweet, no time so sacred as that very special day of your marriage. Then and there you glimpse celestial job. Be alert; do not permit temptation to rob you of this blessing.”

President Thomas S. Monson, “Whom Shall I Marry?” New Era, Oct. 2004, 6. 

Trials

President Thomas S. Monson reminds us that “life was never intended to consist of a glut of luxury, be an easy course, or filled only with success. There are those games which we lose, those races in which we finish last, and those promotions which never come. Such experiences provide an opportunity for us to show our determination and to rise above disappointment.”

Thomas S. Monson, “Go For It!” Ensign, May  1989, 44. 

It Takes Courage

“It takes courage to gather children from whatever they’re doing and kneel together as a family. It takes courage to turn off the television and the computer and to guide your family through the pages of the scriptures every day. It takes courage to turn down other invitations on Monday night so that you can reserve that evening for your family. It takes courage and willpower to avoid over-scheduling so that your family can be home for dinner.”

Larry R. Lawrence, “Courageous Parenting,” 100.

Children's Consequences

 “If we attempt to mitigate or erase the consequences of our children’s choices, our children may have a difficult time understanding and following divine laws.”

Mark D. Ogletree, “Helping Without Hovering,” Ensign, Mar 2012, 12. 

Gifts on Condition of Obedience

“Just as God has bestowed some gifts on all of His mortal children without requiring their personal obedience to His laws, parents provide many benefits like housing and food even if their children are not in total harmony with all parental requirements. But, following the example of an all-wise and loving Heavenly Father who has given laws and commandments for the benefit of His children, wise parents condition some parental gifts on obedience.”

 Dallin H. Oaks, “Love and Law,” Ensign, Nov. 2009, 28.

Work

Elder D. Todd Christofferson has explained that work can even help our children negotiate some of life’s pain and discouragement: “By work we sustain and enrich life. It enables us to survive the disappointments and tragedies of the mortal experience. Hard-earned achievement brings a sense of self-worth. Work builds and refines character [and] creates beauty.”

D. Todd Christofferson, “Reflections on a Consecreated Life,” Ensign, Nov. 2010, 17. 

Raising Children

“In my opinion, the teaching, rearing, and training of children requires more intelligence, intuitive understanding, humility, strength, wisdom, spirituality, perseverance, and hard work than any other challenge we might have in life.”

James E. Faust, “The Greatest Challenge in the World—Good Parenting,” Ensign, Nov. 1990, 33. 

Sustaining Our Leaders

“You will all abide the pledge you have given to the Lord and to one another by the uplifted hand, that you all mean to uphold and sustain these officers in all these various organizations, that . . . you will do everything you can to help them, to benefit them, bless them, and encourage them in the good work in which they are engaged.”

President Joseph F. Smith (1838-1918), Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph F. Smith (1998), 218-19. 

The Angels Cannot Be Restrained

On April 28, 1842, the Prophet Joseph Smith said to the sisters in Relief Society: “You are now placed in a situation in which you can act according to those sympathies which God has planted in [you]. . . . If you live up to your privileges, the angels cannot be restrained from being your associates.”

Joseph Smith, in History of the Church, 4:605.

When God Speaks

“Much of what the Lord reveals to His prophets is intended to prevent sorrow for us as individuals and as societies. When God speaks, He does so to teach, inspire, refine, and warn His children. When individuals and societies ignore their Heavenly Father’s instructions, they do so at the risk or trial, torment, and toil.”

Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “Why Do We Need Prophets?” Ensign, Mar 2012, p 4. 

Assignments and Fore-ordination

President Spencer W. Kimball taught: "Before we came here, faithful women were given certain assignments while faithful men were foreordained to certain priesthood tasks. While we do not now remember the particulars, this does not alter the glorious reality of what we once agreed to. You are accountable for those things which long ago were expected of you just as are those we sustain as prophets and apostles!"

"The Role of Righteous Women," Ensign, Nov. 1979, 102.

Suggestions for Parents

“President Ezra Taft Benson has offered [the following] suggestions for [parents]….

1.       Take time to always be at the crossroads in the lives of your children, whether they be six or sixteen.

2.       Take time to be a real friend to your children.

3.       Take time to read to your children.

4.       Take time to pray with your children.

5.       Take time to have a meaningful weekly home evening.

6.       Take time to be together at mealtimes as often as possible.

7.       Take time daily to read the scripture together as a family.

8.       Take time to do things together as a family.

9.       Take time to teach your children.

1.   Take time to truly love your children.

A Calling to Minister

The Prophet Joseph Smith said, "Every man who has a calling to minister to the inhabitants of the world was ordained to that very purposed in the Grand Council of heaven before this world was."

(Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, sel. Joseph Fielding Smith [1976], 365.)

Write It and Reflect on It

“Out of all we have heard, there may be a phrase or a paragraph that will stand out and possess our attention. If this occurs, I hope we will write it down and reflect on it until we savor the depth of its meaning and have made it a part of our own lives.”

President Gordon B. Hinckley, “An Humble and a Contrite Heart,” Ensign, Nov. 2000, 88. 

Prepare for Revelation

The following ideas can help you prepare to be taught by the Spirit:

1.       Set aside time and create a distraction-free environment in which you can receive spiritual promptings.

2.       Seek divine guidance through prayer.

3.       List personal questions or concerns for which you are seeking answers.

Michael Barber and David Marsh, “Getting More Out of General Conference,” Ensign, Apr 2012, 9. 

Conference Talks

President Spencer W. Kimball taught of conference talks, “No text or volume outside the standard works of the Church should have such a prominent place on your personal library shelves—not for their rhetorical excellence or eloquence of delivery, but for the concepts which point the way to eternal life.”

Spencer W. Kimball, In the World but Not of It, Brigham Young University Speeches of the Year (May 14, 1968), 3. 

Conference Issue

“For the next six months, your conference edition of the Ensign should stand next to your standard works and be referred to frequently.”

Ezra Taft Benson, “Come unto Christ, and Be Perfected in Him,” Ensign, May 1988, 84. 

Love, Watch Over, and Strengthen

How can we as visiting teachers love, watch over, and strengthen a sister? Following are nine suggestions found in chapter 7 of Daughters in My Kingdom: The History and Work of Relief Society to help visiting teachers minister to their sisters:

                -Pray daily for her and her family.

                -Seek inspiration to know her and her family.

                -Visit her regularly to learn how she is doing and to comfort and strengthen her.

-Stay in frequent contact through visits, phone calls, letters, e-mail, text messages, and simple acts of kindness.

                -Greet her at Church meetings.

                -Help her when she has an emergency, illness, or other urgent need.

                -Teach her the gospel from the scriptures and the Visiting Teaching Messages.

                -Inspire her by setting a good example.

-Report to a Relief Society leader about their service and the sister’s spiritual and temporal well-being. 

A Great Visiting Teacher

“We know we are successful in our ministering as visiting teachers when our sisters can say: (1) my visiting teacher helps me grow spiritually; (2) I know my visiting teacher cares deeply about me and my family; and (3) if I have problems, I know my visiting teacher will take action without waiting to be asked.”

Julie B. Beck, “What I Hope My Granddaughters (and Grandsons) Will Understand about Relief Society, Ensign, Nov. 2011, 113. 

The Adversary Succeeds

“Brothers and sisters, in the latter days the adversary succeeds when we relax our commitment to the Savior, ignore His teachings in the New Testament and other scripture, and cease to follow Him. Parents, now is the time to teach our children to be examples of the believers by attending sacrament meeting. When Sunday morning arrives, help them to be well rested, properly dressed, and spiritually prepared to partake of the emblems of the sacrament and receive the enlightening, edifying, ennobling power of the Holy Ghost.”

Elder L. Tom Perry, “The Sabbath and the Sacrament,” Ensign, May 2011, 6-9.

Resting From Our Labors

“Sometimes we think of resting from our labors as merely letting the hay baler stand idle in the field or putting a Closed sign on the business door. Yet in today’s world, labor includes the everyday work of our lives. This mean business activities we may accomplish from home, athletic competitions, and other pursuits that take us away from Sabbath day worship and the opportunity to minister to others.”

Elder L. Tom Perry, “The Sabbath and the Sacrament,” Ensign, May 2011, 6-9.

The Sacrament Table

Elder Melvin J. Ballard has suggested, “We want every Latter-day Saint to come to the sacrament table because it is the place for self-investigation, for self-inspection, where we may learn to rectify our course and to make right our own lives, bringing ourselves into harmony with the teachings of the Church and with our brethren and sisters.”

In Bryant S. Hinckley, Sermons and Missionary Services of Melvin Joseph Ballard (1949), 150. 

Offer Up Our Sacraments

“What does it mean to offer up our sacraments to the Lord? We acknowledge that all of us make mistakes. Each of us has a need to confess and forsake our sins and errors to our Heavenly Father and to others we may have offended.”

Elder L. Tom Perry, “The Sabbath and the Sacrament,” Ensign, May 2011, 6-9.

The Pattern of the Sabbath

“As we consider the pattern of the Sabbath and the sacrament in our own lives, there appear to be three things the Lord requires of us: first, to keep ourselves unspotted from the world; second, to go to the house of prayer and offer up our sacraments; and third, to rest from our labors.

“It is a glorious thing to be a Christian and to live as a true disciple of Christ. Of us He said, “They are not of the world, even as I am not of the world.” To keep ourselves unspotted from the world, He expects us to avoid such worldly distractions of businesses and recreational facilities on the Sabbath day.

“I believe He also desire us to dress appropriately. Our youth may think the old saying “Sunday best” is outdated. Still, we know that when Sunday dress deteriorates to everyday attire, attitudes and actions follow.”

Elder L. Tom Perry, “The Sabbath and the Sacrament,” Ensign, May 2011, 6-9.

Sacrament

“Partaking of the sacrament is the center of our Sabbath day observance.”

Elder L. Tom Perry, “The Sabbath and the Sacrament,” Ensign, May 2011, 6-9.

Worship

“The Pattern of the Sabbath day observance must always include worship.”

Elder L. Tom Perry, “The Sabbath and the Sacrament,” Ensign, May 2011, 6-9.

Observance of the Sabbath Day

“In the fourth chapter of Paul’s writings to Timothy, we read: “These things command and teach. . . . Be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.” I can think of no better way for us to begin or continue to be an example of the believers than in our observance of the Sabbath day.”

Elder L. Tom Perry, “The Sabbath and the Sacrament,” Ensign, May 2011, 6-9.

Studying Isaiah

“The Book of Mormon is a book of scripture. It is another testament of Jesus Christ. It is written in biblical language, in the language of the prophets.

“For the most part, it is in easy-flowing New Testament language, with such works as spake for spoke, unto for to, with and it came to pass, with thus and thou and thine.

“You will not read many pages into it until you catch the cadence of that language and the narrative will be easy to understand. As a matter of fact, most teenagers readily understand the narrative of the Book of Mormon.

“Then, just as you settle in to move comfortably along, you will meet a barrier. The style of the language changes to Old Testament prophecy style. For, interspersed in the narrative, are chapters reciting the prophecies of the Old Testament prophet Isaiah. They loom as a barrier, like a roadblock or a checkpoint beyond which the casual reader, one with idle curiosity, generally will not go.

“You, too, may be tempted to stop there, but do not do it! Do not stop reading! Move forward through those difficult-to-understand chapters of Old Testament prophecy, even if you understand very little of it. Move on, if all you do is skim and merely glean an impression here and there. Move on, if all you do is look at the words. . . .

“. . . The Lord had a purpose in preserving the prophecies of Isaiah in the Book of Mormon, notwithstanding they become a barrier to the casual reader.

“Those who never move beyond the Isaiah chapters miss the personal treasures of be gathered along the way.”

In Conference Report, Apr. 1986, 76-77 or Ensign, May 1986, 61.

LDS Scripture Citation Index

www.scriptures.byu.edu

This resource, produced in English by two Brigham Young University teachers, connects verses of scripture with statements from modern-day prophets and apostles. For example, suppose you want to know who has cited 1 Nephi 3:7 in general conference. Click on the Book of Mormon link at the left side of the screen and scroll down to 1 Nephi 3; there you’ll find the answer.

Ensign, Oct. 2011, 31. 

Adequate Study Time

“Sometimes it is helpful to read the entire Book of Mormon in a relatively brief period of time to grasp the sweep of its story and message. But generally it is best to focus on devoting adequate time each day to studying the book as opposed to reading some fixed number of verses or pages per day.”

Elder D. Todd Christofferson, “How to Study The Book of Mormon,” Ensign, Oct. 2011, 30.

Drawing Nearer to God

“It is not just that the Book of Mormon teaches us truth, though it indeed does that. It is not just that the Book of Mormon bears testimony of Christ, though it indeed does that, too. But there is something more. There is a power in the book which will begin to flow into your lives the moment you begin a serious study of the book.”

Ezra Taft Benson, Ensign, Nov. 1986, 7. 

Written for Our Day

“The Book of Mormon authors wrote with future generations in mind, specifically the latter days. . . .We should therefore study with these questions in mind: “Why was this included? How does this apply today and to me?””

Elder D. Todd Christofferson, “How to Study The Book of Mormon,” Ensign, Oct. 2011, 28. 

Why Study the Book of Mormon?

Three reasons why we should make the study of the Book of Mormon a lifetime pursuit are these:

·         First, the Book of Mormon is the keystone of our religion—the keystone of our witness of Jesus Christ, of our doctrine, and of our testimony.

·         Second, the Book of Mormon was written for our day.

·         Third, the Book of Mormon helps us draw nearer to God.

Since the Book of Mormon is the keystone of our witness of Christ and the fullness of His gospel, it is important in our study to give special attention to the many teachings and testimonies of the Savior it contains.

Elder D. Todd Christofferson, “How to Study The Book of Mormon,” Ensign, Oct. 2011, 28. 

The Prophet Harold B. Lee Testifies

“In this day when the Bible is being down-graded by many who have mingled philosophies of the world with Bible scriptures to nullify their true meaning, how fortunate that our eternal Heavenly Father, who is always concerned about the spiritual well-being of His children, has given to us a companion book of scriptures, known as the Book of Mormon, as a defense for the truths of the Bible that were written and spoken by the prophets as the Lord directed. . . .

“. . . By this second witness we may know more certainly the meaning of the teachings of the ancient prophets and, indeed, of the Master and His disciples as they lived and taught, among men. This should inspire all who would be honest seekers after truth to put these two sacred scriptures together and study them as one book, understanding, as we do, their true relationship.”

President Harold B. Lee, Ye Are the Light of the World (1974), 89, 91. 

The Prophet Gordon B. Hinckley Testifies

“The Book of Mormon has come forth by the gift and power of God. It speaks as a voice from the dust in testimony of the Son of God. It speaks of His birth, of His ministry, of His Crucifixion and Resurrection, and of His appearance to the righteous in the land Bountiful on the American continent.

“It is a tangible thing that can be handled, that can be read, that can be tested. It carries within its covers a promise of its divine origin. Millions now have put it to the test and found it to be a true and sacred record.”

President Gordon B. Hinckley, “The Great Things Which God Has Revealed,” Liahona and Ensign, May 2005, 81-82. 

Comprehend the Atonement

Elder Robert D. Hales said: “What we must remember about the Savior is that He and He alone had the power to lay down His life and take it up again. He had the ability to die from His mortal mother, Mary, and the ability to overcome death from His immortal Father. Our Savior, Jesus Christ, went willingly and deliberately to His death, having told His followers that this would happen. Why? one might ask. The answer: to give immortality to all mankind and the promise of eternal life to those who believed in Him (see John 3:15), to give His own life for a ransom for others (see Matthew 20:28), to overcome Satan’s power, and to make it possible for sins to be forgiven. Without Jesus’ Atonement, there would be an impassable barrier between God and mortal men and women. When we comprehend the Atonement, we remember Him with awe and gratitude”


 (in Conference Report, Oct. 1997, 34; or Ensign, Nov. 1997, 26).