Improve Relationships

Jesus Christ gives us a perfect example of how to connect with others. “His communication with others radiated love, care, and concern. He spoke gently and loved purely. … He listened attentively and demonstrated charity. Likewise, if we want our relationships to improve, we must learn to speak in positive ways that edify and build those around us.”

Mark Ogletree, “Speak, Listen, and Love,” Ensign, Feb. 2014, 17.

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My Sister's Hands

My sister’s hands are fair and white. My sister’s hands are dark.

My sister’s hands are touched with age, or by the years unmarked

And often when I pray for strength to live as He commands,

The Father sends me sustenance in my sister’s hands.

My sister’s hands are lines and worn with burdens of their own,

And yet I know that should I mourn, I need not weep alone.

And often as I seek His grace to lighten life’s demands,

The Father sends me solace borne in my sister’s hands.

My sister’s hands, compassion’s tools that teach my own their art

Witnesses of charity within the human heart,

Bearers of the Savior’s love and mercy unto man,

I have felt the Master’s touch, in my sister’s hands.

-Sally DeFord

Women's Influence

Because we as women have great influence on those around us, we must do all we can to keep ourselves spiritually strong.

Julie B. Beck, “Relief Society History: A Look at the Lord’s Vision for His Daughters,” Ensign Sept 2011, 40-43.

The Milk Cocktail

“I have found that if you live the way you should live, people notice and are impressed with your beliefs and you have an influence on the lives of others.

“I spent my career in the department store business. Because I was part of a management team, it was important for me to interact socially with local business organizations. The meetings with most of these organizations always started with a cocktail hour. It was a time to mix and get acquainted with the men who belonged to the organization. I have always felt uncomfortable in these social hours. At first I started asking for a lemon-lime soda. I soon discovered that lemon-lime soda looks like many of the other drinks. I could not build the impression I was a nondrinker with a clear soda in my hands. I tried root beer. It had the same problem.

“Finally I decided I had to have a drink that would clearly mark me as a nondrinker. I went to the bartender and requested a glass of milk. The bartender had never had such a request. He went into the kitchen and found a glass of milk for me. Now I had a drink that looked very different from the alcoholic beverages the others were drinking. Suddenly I was the center of attention. There were a lot of jokes made of my drink. My milk was a conversation piece. I met more business leaders that evening than I ever had before at a cocktail hour.

“Milk became my drink of choice at the cocktail hours. It soon became common knowledge I was a Mormon. The respect I received really surprised me, as did an interesting event that started to occur. Others soon joined me in a pure milk cocktail!

“Dare to be different. Live up to the standards we are taught in the gospel.”

Elder L. Tom Perry, From an address delivered on January 15, 2010, at Utah Valley University.