Monday, March 9, 2026

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Relief Through Jesus Christ: The Power of the Fast

How Parents Use their Phones Affects Children

 In Gaskin’s iPads-as-marshmallows study, what predicted preschoolers’ ability to resist the blaring call of the screens boiled down to one factor: how their parents use their phones. The “parents who primarily use their own devices for work, socializing, and learning”—vs. escape and entertainment—“their kids were able to delay gratification,” Gaskin says. “The kid learns from their parents’ behavior.”

Parents’ device use impacts how teens use their own phones, according to research by family life professor Sarah M. Coyne and research assistant Hailey E. Holmgren (BS ’14, MS ’17). A 2024 study by Holmgren published in Computers in Human Behavior suggests that when mothers, who are most often the primary caregivers, use smaller amounts of all types of media, their kids use media less and have fewer problems with it. Mothers who use high levels of social media and video games per day see more problematic media use in their kids.

“Parents set the tone for the media culture in the home,” says Coyne. “There’s a very large correlation between the time a parent spends on media and the time their child does. Model what you want to see in your own kids.”


https://magazine.byu.edu/article/mind-the-app-parenting-kids-smartphones/