The Ministry of Reconciliation
By Elder Jeffrey R. Holland
Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles
...the wisest of the ancient Romans, who said, “Anger, if not restrained, is frequently more [destructive] than the injury that provokes it.”...
Brothers and sisters, Jesus has asked that we “live together in love”
6 with “no disputations among you.”
7 “He that hath the spirit of contention is not of me,” He warned the Nephites.
8 Indeed, to a great degree, our relationship to Christ will be determined—or at least affected—by our relationship to each other.
“If ye … desire to come unto me,” He said, “and rememberest that thy brother hath aught against thee—
“Go thy way unto thy brother, and
first be reconciled to [him], and then come unto me with full purpose of heart, and I will receive you.”
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Surely each of us could cite an endless array of old scars and sorrows and painful memories that this very moment still corrode the peace in someone’s heart or family or neighborhood. Whether we have caused that pain or been the recipient of the pain, those wounds need to be healed so that life can be as rewarding as God intended it to be. Like the food in your refrigerator that your grandchildren carefully check in your behalf, those old grievances have long since exceeded their expiration date. Please don’t give precious space in your soul to them any longer. As Prospero said to the regretful Alonso in The Tempest, “Let us not burden our remembrance with a heaviness that’s gone.”