“Most of us at some time in our lives feel the chill winds
of adversity. Storms brew, winds blow, rains fall, floods rise. It may seem
that there is no end in sight, that we simply face a future of uncertainty and
doubt, trial and tribulation.
“As well as experiencing periodic thunderstorms, we can
experience horrific hurricanes and tempests or turmoil, which can destroy our
confidence and shake our sense of self-worth. All that we hold dear can
suddenly feel so ephemeral, slipping through our fingers. Major life changes
can knock us off balance, disrupting our sense of equilibrium.
“Perhaps an unexpected layoff has led to long-term
unemployment, lack of financial freedom has cut choice, or mortgage meltdown
has left us in monetary misery. Perhaps anticipated retirement after a long,
busy, and productive career has brought a sense of loss. Perhaps sudden
sickness or devastating disability has left us feeling “boxed in,” helpless,
hopeless, and uncertain. In such circumstances, fear can come easily, while
faith can be hard to sustain.
“I know all of this for myself. While recovering from
surgery to remove two sizeable brain tumors, I experienced periods of
melancholy and dismay from the emotional and mental impact of it all. I
discovered that I was not as invincible as I once thought I was. Medication did
not help, and a relapse or two brought additional despondency. I began to feel
sorry for myself.
“Then some wonderful things began to happen. Good friends
and trusted Church leaders offered their support and understanding, and I began
to listen to their counsel and accept their encouragement. Late one night as I
shared my gloomy feelings with our youngest son, he said, “Well Dad, I have
always thought that happiness is a decision.” He is right.”
Elder David S. Baxter, “Leaving Adversity Behind,” Ensign,
Dec 2012, 24-25.
